My Choice?

The first time I saw this over hyped “Deepika Padukone’s – My Choice” video, I felt – kya chutiyapan hai yaar. Kuch bhi bakvas kehdo aur “Women empowerment” label lagado. For cheap publicity. Such a shame.

Didn’t even apply their brain? What if men start saying the same?
Sex outside marriage – My Choice.
Drink and slap you – My Choice.
I love you or I love your friend or both – My Choice.

The other way around – Think in the name of equality!
What if the same stupid ‘My Choice’ video was made by a guy?
So many feminists, sickulars, media pigs would have started drama already 24×7 🙂 (I call it Drama in comparison to the reaction to Deepikas video. Otherwise yes, it’s an issue.)

SEX aur shohrat
Aur ye SEX ka kya laga dala hai yaar ye log. Khub advantage le rahe hai. There is nothing about WOMEN EMPOWERMENT in this video. SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX ..package it in different format, sell it and make money in a way that’s not visible to everyone!

Serious Issue For So Many People!
‘Sex outside marriage, right!’ – bhai ye to national problem hai na, economy, flood, food stamp bills, honest IAS officer being killed, arms bill, border issues etc ko to bad mai dekhlenge. Chalta hai, right?

Are, Sex ko sadak pe bhi karsakte hai log – it’s NOT always YOUR CHOICE.

This video was made for women in villages?
IIN se ho kya? Village, angrazi and internet? – Feels like even Modi haters are sure he’ll bring change soon 🙂

My Country, My Love
Oh My God, I don’t know where My country is going?
Please make sure who you follow. Be safe. Don’t be fooled by such cheap publicity stunts.

Deepika, this is nonsense.
Love temporarily or lust forever?
Men have finger rings too and it can also be changed Deepika, for your information. Forgot it?
‘Your baby’ ..I thought it’s OURS all these days! Now the real question starts, about YOUR CHOICE.
And wait, guys pleasure can also become your pain. Hope you don’t mind – if you have one, btw.

“Don’t be upset if I come home at 4am.
Don’t be fooled if I come home at 6pm.”
If no one cares about you, then what’s the use of love and care for each other? You mean, you can come home anytime and nobody should ask you about your choice? If you are not yet home, at late night, nobody should be worried about your journey or your safety?

Now don’t tell me, it’s only about taking your own decisions etc. Don’t be so selfish – your relationships wouldn’t last long this way. There is something called responsibility for both men and women. We can’t always say and go by ‘My Choice’. Responsibility, love, care and sacrifice for each other creates happy relationships.

Deepika, Vogue India – with these lines, I can confidently tell you. Stop this nonsense. It’s not your choice. These kind of stupidity are being watched even by teenagers. For God’s sake, don’t spoil their minds with your stupid thoughts.

Deepika, I’ve tips for you about Women Empowerment
There are so many people who are deprived of so many basic things. Go help them. Help build proper sanitation. Try educating them about their body or whatever good you know – I’m sure, as a human being everybody will have valuable things to give back. There are families who can’t afford to send their girl child to school, extend your help. Help women entrepreneurs. There are rape victims who are still under depression, try to do something to bring them back. There are women in old age homes. There are women on streets who do not have proper clothing and proper shelter. Get out of your AC car sometime and look at other women in real. There are so many ways if you really even care about women empowerment. Keep your dramas to cinemas, do not extend it to real issues that our society faces. I promise you, these are serious issues to normal people like us. Really.

You can even not care about Women Empowerment and keep yourself away from it. Not a problem – it’s clearly YOUR CHOICE. But misleading people of my country and doing it as if you are someone great and needs to be followed – will not be allowed – it’s NOT YOUR CHOICE. We, the people of this country, won’t let you choose it. Sure enough. [You have Europe – YOUR CHOICE!]

Controversial – pardon me
Vogue is an European brand. This ‘My Choice’ video is Vogue India’s social awareness initiative #VogueEmpower. They are a fashion brand and they objectify women. Check their website and you’ll be shocked to see their women objectification everywhere. Vogue needs to make better choices now. Did you watch BBC(European) documentary? India’s Daughter? I know, some of you got into defensive mode now. Let me make my point first. I know, the documentary brought out sick mentality of rapists and the lawyer etc. But then, look at the intention. They are using Huge Indian market to profit from it. I completely agree the fact that, whatever maybe their Moto, we got to know the dark reality. I completely agree with that. Then Vogue tried similar thing and failed. These foreign brands are so good at their works. They do market research, analyze and then invest (for returns – profit – huge profit). They know us very well by now. What kind of things WE share on Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp etc. They can get the REAL data. They(media experts) study it and then make these materials/videos. It’s their profession. But being smart Indians – (yes Indians are recognized by their intelligence/smartness), please be mature enough to separate the fake things. Don’t jump and share anything which has star cast you like. Point to be noted, Deepika has a movie coming up. These are lined up professionally, and not accidental.

Empowering Bollywood Item numbers

Do item numbers in all Bollywood movies and talk about your cleavage, create more hype and then advice or even try to force someone not to be sexist. I know it’s your choice. But then, whosoever talks whatsoever they want, is THEIR CHOICE!

It’s about equality. Not creating more problems by trying to achieve supremacy – for any gender.

Madhuri Dixit for #VogueEmpower #StartWithTheBoys

Well this was hilariously stupid too. It looks like empowering men, and then shows double standards at the end!

Men – The Forgotten Gender – by Deepika Bhardwaj

^ Must watch

One common thing I observed is, some start talking about RAPE immediately when people oppose such pointless videos. Come one, not all men are rapist, and not all women are sluts. Get it?

Real Men
I was disappointed with the video, as it’s misleading at so many levels. Young boys and girls watching it would get influenced by these nonsense video. Some might even develop anger over women or men (gender bias) and start making it men v/s women too – have seen this happen with some people already. That’s a bad thing.

Let’s be mature. Your choice of sleeping with other man surly won’t make a great choice!

Being a responsible human being:
I would love my wife(my love) till my last breath.
I would not even think of having an affair with other women.
I would love you the same(or even more) when you are pregnant.
It’s OUR baby, I would take care of it as I take care of you and vice versa.
I would make sure to provide a life and lifestyle you deserve.
I would love your parents, like I love my parents.
I would treat your siblings like my siblings.
I would respect your choice of going for a job or not going for it.
I would trust you and not spy on you while you are at your job.
I wouldn’t force you to have sex when you don’t want to.
I would try my best to understand you and cooperate with you while you are suffering from periods.
I wouldn’t hide or delete text messages or emails or DMs PMs etc. I would keep my conversation with others transparent with you.
I wouldn’t seduce any other women and then call it her mistake for proposing me. – No Room For Unwanted Drama In Relationship.
I wouldn’t stand and stare a women show off her cleavage(intentionally or unintentionally) – I would mind my own business.
I would give preference to our family and won’t ignore it in my busy works.
I would stay honest to you till my last breath.
We will have a sweet relationship we will be proud of.

Together We Win
There is no point in making it MEN v/s WOMEN. We must fight for good cause together. United we stand, divided we fall.

ps: “Honesty is an expensive gift, don’t expect it from cheap people.” – Warren Buffett


ℒℴѵℯ… such a blissful word, that we feel the comfort of mom’s lap immediately. Loving and being loved is such a valuable thing. As Mother Theresa rightly said,

“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.”

Businesses always look for emotional requirements of human beings. For example, nobody would like to spend time fighting to bargain for $5 medicine and ask it for $1. Businesses know it – the sense of urgency – people would spend a lot to see their loved ones recover and smile again. Business people also can clearly see the need and hunger for love, so they came up with so many product ideas and have sold millions of dollars worth products and services related to love!

Love Love Love Everywhere!

Relationship advice, sexual enhancement tips, tips on looking seductive to your partner, getting back your ex, divorce advice, DVDs teaching people how to lead a happy married life, sexy inner wears, books on how to date women, books on pleasing your man, condoms, pills to prevent pregnancy, anything with love written on it or the heart shape embedded in it – pillows, rings, lockets, jackets, toys, t-shirts etc. I know not all these things are symbol of love, but I list them because some of them are consequences of love-making.

“If you get someone close with your looks, they may leave you for looks one day.”

Love isn’t all about having physical relationship. Because beauty obviously fads. So your relationship must be based on strong characteristics of your attitude towards each other. The love and care for each other irrespective of the bad/good situations your life brings up to you. Take those adverse situations as challenges. Fight and overcome bad situations together.

Never let them feel inferior or disabled. Love can help overcome the horrific of horrific situations. Your problems are nothing. Don’t focus on wrong things – problems, worries, tensions, disabilities, fears. Focus of love, ability, care, possibilities.


Energy flows where focus goes.

Advice on opposite sex
There’re lot of articles online, videos and books written on this subject. But still you can’t guess exactly about your life partner’s likes and dislikes easily. The best way is to learn by communicating with your partner, simple. Why spend so much to know it all by yourself when the best person to know it from is beside you.

“The confident ask questions to learn what will connect. The insecure just keep talking with the hope something will stick. Be confident.”

You can observe their body language, you can know their interests by looking at what they watch on TV, what they admire about etc. Never ever take your partner for granted. Treat them with respect. Treat them like an individual with similar opportunities like yourself. Respect their freedom. Respect their feelings. Respect their body.

Your body
Your body is the place where you need to live for the rest of your life. Care for it. It needs enough care and nutrition. Feed it properly and keep it in healthy condition. Treat it like temple.

“The best curve I love on your body is your – SMILE. Keep smiling 🙂 “

Your Dignity
Value yourself first. Don’t waste your time and energy trying to please and get approval from the wrong one. Let them always know that, your vision is what you value the most. Don’t loose your dignity for the sake of someones approval.

Pleasing the opposite sex shouldn’t be the only aim of your life. There’s a bigger purpose for it. Concentrate on your goals. Stick on to your vision. Have enough love for yourself too. Because you can’t be sure when the other person you’re loving so much more than yourself will stop loving you. So have enough love for yourself too. YOU actually deserve it.

“I see guys spending weeks, months trying to make a girl happy. I see girls waiting endlessly for their guys to call. Is that all your life is about? For your lover to validate you? Or to make a relationship work? Instead, why not focus on yourself – working on your goals, learning something, being a more positive person and helping others. That will boost your self-esteem far more than any lover ever could. Next time that guy or girl treats you badly, say thank you. Say thank you for reminding me that I need to make myself the focus of my life, not you.”

— Chetan Bhagat

Love Marriage vs Arrange Marriage
I’m not an expert in this subject. But I can still observe: arrange marriages these days are much like agreements between two broken hearts. Not all arrange marriages btw, only some. If you have someone who truly loves you, keeps thinking of you, cares for you, who makes you smile, who makes you feel comfortable, who is responsible, who checks up on you often to see if you’re ok, who watches out for you and wants the very best for you, is there a point in letting them go out of your life ? can take risk. Do not just leave the person and his/her love for the sake of money/luxury life you may get with another person. You can’t eat money. Look how much money you may need for your life and your future child’s life. Do you really need millions of dollars? What if the million dollar guy/girl doesn’t treat you well. What if his/her character and conduct is absurd? – I’m not insisting you, people with money are bad. But I only argue that, you can hold the hands of your love and achieve anything in this world – yes, anything – so why not work together for your dreams?

On the other hand, if you’re going after arrange marriage, you can always fall in love with your partner after marriage. Don’t act as if married people can’t love each other 😛

“If you don’t fight for what you want, don’t cry for what you’ve lost.”

Sometimes, you can only feel something by its absence. By the empty space it leaves behind. Remember great love and great achievements always come with great risk. Do your best, but never mourn for failure. Learn from your mistakes. The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you at some point in your life. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for. Don’t behave childishly by blaming each other. Instead, accept the reality and move on. Remember – this too shall pass. I know, it is easier said than done. But you’ll somehow need to get well soon and start living your purpose, your passion. Remember, you have a vision which is greater than you. Love should never separate a man from his personal legend. Usually, it’s when they see you doing better without them,that’s when they want you back in their life. Do not chase the wrong ones. I know its hard to say goodbye to someone you wanted to spend all your life with. Its Hard to let go of what you thought was real. But it is when you stop chasing the wrong ones, the right things start happening. It’s bad to let the wrong one stay in your life lot longer than they actually deserve. Close some doors – not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere. Get out of the deadlock. And don’t keep looking back, you’re NOT going that way.

“Be with someone who is proud to have you ..”

Comfort Zone
Often times we get out of our comfort zone and do things which would help our loved ones. That’s the power of love. And all the magic happen outside our comfort zone. Keep pushing yourself and keep learning and improving yourself. We are captives of our own identities, living in a prison of our own creation. Break it and let the real YOU emerge. Love unconditionally. If you’re not madly in love, well there’s no point of being in love at all. Redefine your love, if that’s what you need in the first place, before you proceed any further.

“Relationships last long because two people made a choice. The decision to keep it, to fight for it, and to work hard for it.”

Love is responsibility

Once you get your life partner, you shouldn’t forget your responsibility for your parents, brothers, sisters and to yourself. Be responsible. Be responsible to your partner too. Do not take your love for granted. Love your love each day, as if it’s your first day with your love.

5 success and life lessons I’ve learnt over the years:

1. Very few people actually love you, and you can count them on your fingers. Hold on to them.

2. Many people will love you if you’re successful. They’ll stop when you’re not. They love success, not you. Don’t take them seriously.

3. When you are not successful, few will believe your dreams. You are one of them who do. Sometimes, you’ll be the only one.

4. Despite having dreams, will and focus, sometimes your motivation will drop. Lift yourself back up to fight again. It isn’t easy. That is why so few make it.

5. People who come first in class don’t do the best in life.
People who understand people, their field and themselves do.

– Chetan Bhagat

Are You Single ?
Don’t worry too much thinking if you’ll get a good girl/boy. What she/he might be doing right now etc. I’ve heard this so many times from so many people: Good girl/boy gets bad boy/girl, and bad girl/boy gets good boy/girl. Come on, stop thinking and emotionally feeling about such myths. We all know karma follows -> So whatever you’re, be a good one. Be the type of person you want to meet. Be awesome. Show your love towards your daily activities. Your family people. Your work. Your friends. Your life. Because you deserve Love in everything you do. Be thankful to everything you already have. It’s not happy people who are thankful. It’s thankful people who are happy. Have enough love. Be happy. Let happiness be the way of your life. Be the ℒℴѵℯ…..

“The higher you build the walls around your heart, the harder you fall when someone tears them down.”

..above all, have patience. God has perfect timing – never early, never late. It takes a lot of faith but it’s worth the wait.

Love you heart-small-icon


If you believe in Horoscope, I’m sure you might have spent some money on prediction books, holy rings and on astrologers.


My view
Well, I believe in our Indian culture and I also believe that our ancestors had mastered some of these techniques and were successfully able to predict and forecast many things which were helpful for mankind. But am not sure, in present day scenarios, if we could rely on TV publicity stunts of some of the so called gurus. It’s more like marketing for them, than reaching out and helping people.

Present day facts
To my surprise, in Bangalore(and many other places) there are astrologers who charge Rs. 20,000 to Rs. 50,000 per session. And these astrologers have built big apartments and are living luxury life – all thanks to their profession 😉

But I would suggest you not to invest anything above Rs. 500 for such things. You’ll get all those predictions in good authentic books.

Amazon: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope
FlipKart: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope
Amazon India: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope

Small Story
One of my close friend went to a renowned astrologer in Bangalore and they charged her Rs. 20,000 and gave some printout of the prediction and asked her to take some precautionary measures to safe guard her life by purchasing some rings and CDs/DVDs from their own shop – their own shop, because they have got those rings from kashi and these things have been blessed by lord Shiva – and so they charge a premium for it – another Rs. 20,000

She showed that printout to me and with 5 min research I got the same software which that astrologer was using. Asked birth details of my friend, input that info to the software and boom …same results — All for FREE!

I know, by having that software and printout I can’t be an astrologer and I may not accurately explain things in that printout. But my point is, charging Rs. 20,000 is ridiculous. And believe me, there are many people using some kind of similar software and have gained some basic knowledge about astrology and have a successful business built from scratch! – avoid, avoid, avoid.

It’s not like, I don’t believe in astrology. I do believe in it, but not necessarily on every astrologer. It has become so commercialized that finding an honest one can’t be predicted!

Stick with good horoscope books, published by reputed/authentic publications. This way, the publisher pays for the author and the cost is divided among all the purchasers. So you get value for small amount.

One such good Horoscope Book I’ve seen is:
And my friends who are into regular astrology, they told me, this is ‘The Best’ astrology book

Amazon: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope
FlipKart: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope
Amazon India: Ganeshaspeaks Horoscope

About the book
You can look at the horoscope of entire family members and your friends, as it comes with all the sun signs. It also covers about global issues. I also got “2014 Basic Overview report” free with this book, which was pretty interesting to read.

I had ordered this book for one of my close friend, and read it out of curiosity.

Apart from all these, know that, too much of anything is not good. So always believe in yourself more than astrology – don’t get too much into it and don’t depend on it for every other decision you take.

At the end:
You’re the creator of your own destiny.” – Swamy Vivekananda

Kids, Rhymes, Fun: Learning!

My nice Bhavana Singing Rhymes and her sister Shreya guiding her to sign. And your’s Satish shooting it 😉

Rhymes: Lyrics and my niece singing




YouTube Link: [Watch the Video In Full Screen.]

(Video shot from My Nexus 5)


1. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star

How I wonder what you are
Up above the world so high
Like a diamond in the sky
Twinkle, twinkle little star
How I wonder what you are

When the blazing sun is gone
When he nothing shines upon
Then you show your little light
Twinkle, twinkle, all the night
Twinkle, twinkle, little star
How I wonder what you are


2. A, B, C, D, E, F, G

A, B, C, D, E, F, G

H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P
[L, M, N, O, P] Q, R, S, T

U, V, W, X, Y, Z

X, Y, Z – butter on your bread ..

If you don’t like it, better go to bed ..

Next monday morning come to me .. I’ll teach you ABC

3. Johny, Johny!

Johny, Johny!
Yes, Papa
Eating sugar?
No, Papa
Telling lies?
No, Papa
Open your mouth!
Ha! Ha! Ha!

4. Chubby cheeks

Chubby cheeks,
dimple chin ..

Rosy lips,
teeth within ..

Curly hair,
very fair ..

Eyes are blue,
lovely too ..

Teachers pet,
is that you?

Yes, Yes, Yes!


Lets Improve Ourselves To Improve The World..